I know that I never use this blog anymore, and when I do I normally just poing people to writing by others, so that I don't disapoint you, I would like to recommend this blog post by Tim Challies. His blog is a great resource. I espcially encouarge young men to read this post and carefully consider it.
Why am I posting the information here? This will automatically upload to my facebook page and will also allow me to "share" it with those who do not use facebook!
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